Here ya go!ĭay 3: Called 8 times on phone, google voice, and Messenger FaceTime. He even tried to request $1 from me in Facebook messenger to get me to open the app. “Mine called me 72 times in 5 days over Facebook messenger, his work phone, his personal phone, his Google voice account. I’m going to tell you word for word because this is something I feel everyone can benefit from reading. One member reached out and her story was so crazy, I am going to feature it here. I asked for some more stories about exes who have reached out during the No Contact Rule from members of the group. The second thing that this poll taught us is that those members whose exes did reach out to them during the No Contact Rule often acted in pretty extreme ways. The Crazy Ex-Boyfriend – When They Do Reach Out Of course, some men don’t react this way. He said, “I wasn’t going to reach out to you until you reached out to me.” When she talked to her ex after she got him back about that period of No Contact, he confirmed what I just said. In fact, when I actually talked to my success stories, I found one of my favorites in Jessie – she actually ended up marrying her ex. Your ex isn’t going to reach out to you because they are stubborn. You’re not going to reach out because you are doing a No Contact Rule, and you know it’ll work best if you complete it properly. And he doesn’t want to back down and be the first to make contact.Īnd if you broke up with him? His pride and hurt feelings likely mean that he won’t allow himself to break the silence first. When you do just that, he no longer knows what’s going on. He’s probably asked you to stop calling, messaging and so on. This is especially true if he instigated the breakup. (Remember, he doesn’t have me to help him through this.) He wants to show you and the world that he’s fine, he’s moving on – but even if it seems this way, it’s very unlikely he’s able to just move on without regrets, hurt feelings, all sorts of emotions that are hard to process. He doesn’t want to look like he’s hurting. Maybe he gets caught up in that age-old ‘winning the breakup’ mentality.
You learned about the No Contact rule from yours truly and decided to implement it on your ex, something that has never been done to him in his entire life (most likely). It’s hurting you and it’s hurting them, in all sorts of different ways. You’ve just been in a serious relationship and gone through a horrific breakup (because even the ‘amicable’ ones aren’t nice!). If your ex doesn’t reach out to you during a No Contact Rule, if you’re using silence and your man is ignoring you, it’s often because they’re throwing a little tantrum because they’re not getting their own way.
You just might not see it in the form of a message. You are not, in fact, using silence to get something like a message in reply, but you will for sure get a reaction. If you expect him to reach out, the statistics clearly show that it’s not that likely. Well, you have to look at running a No Contact Rule in a different way. What’s the point of using it if it doesn’t work to get him talking to you again? Begin To Look At Silence Via The No Contact Rule In A Different Way On the one hand you can say okay, simply put, 95% have used silence or a No Contact Rule, and most say that they don’t get a reach-out.īut what does it mean if an ex isn’t reaching out to you during that No Contact Rule? So essentially what we have here are poll results which are telling us two different things.
Those of you who have completed a No Contact Rule, how many of you actually had an ex reach out to you during that Rule?Ħ2 said their ex did not reach out to them 36 people said that their ex did reach out. Often exes will have many different thoughts as they use it. One of the ways I wanted to rethink silence and the No Contact Rule was helping people determine what they should expect when they instigate something like this. Then I dug a little deeper, and the numbers got even more interesting.Ī few weeks ago we hit about 3,700 members in the private support group.Īnd when you have that many people in a group all focused on one goal, it gives you a great opportunity to analyze what’s working, and how it’s working.
#Does radio silence make a woman miss you full
One thing we found right off the bat is that 95% of our success stories in our private Facebook group (a support group for people who follow the full Ex Recovery Program) have used the No Contact Rule. Throughout my history on YouTube, podcasts and here on my own website, I’ve always been a huge supporter of the No Contact Rule.Įssentially, this is you weaponizing silence to get your way with an ex after a breakup.īut one thing I only recently decided to do was go further into was doing some internal research to see how often No Contact worked. So let’s talk about silence, and if silence can make a man miss you. What Are Your Chances of Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back? Take the quiz